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Holy fucking shit do you want tinker to fuck games
Edit : Imagine Lens + Kaya OR The suggestion above , and you get fucking this (nsfw)
That goes into your butthole each game
Foam rollers are great even if you don't have issues in the muscle you're rolling. In track, we'd all fight over the foam rollers and the "marshmallow sticks". I totally recommend these for anyone who has muscles, lol
More importantly, I'm so happy for you OP! I know that chronic pain can really hold you back and have you living on 75% as your max. This is going to be such a wonderful change :)
Magic Wand Massager with Free Wand Essentials Speed Controller https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0089175GE/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_V5PdDbGDF624D
Forget literally every other suggestion you get. This is it bro. This is the one that will break your woman's mind and rocket her into another dimension. You know how they're always using magic wands in pornos for when they're trying to really brutalize a bitch with crazy orgasms? Yeah, those actresses aren't exaggerating. The things that a magic wand does to my woman make me wish I had a vagina. I'm convinced that I've given her more sexual pleasure in one night with this wand than I will ever receive in my entire life. Seriously bro, this is the one.
I got this one after someone else on here recommended it. The dial thing doesn't really do much unless you put both the wand and the dial on II mode, but when it's like that the lowest setting on the dial gives you a slow but full vibration, and if you put the dial at max it's a really really fast vibration.
I don't know if a lightweight vibrator wand would be a good solution for you, but I use this one and it doesn't put strain on my wrists, which are sensitive to weight strain (even from my Nintendo Lite switch). Amazon link below for the one I have.
Other than that for wands, pillow propping might be a great solution for you. Wedge up a bunch of pillows (maybe a body pillow will be helpful to get varying shapes that feel comfortable) in between your legs and in a way where you don't have to brace them at all with your legs (and then affecting your hips), perhaps against the bed rest or wall, then brace your vibrator there.
I also use insertable vibrators with underwear to keep them in, but that's up to you if you're comfortable with that.
In any case, hope you find a good solution for you! I definitely commiserate and I've def injured my wrists/ hands after being too into it, lol. Good on you for seeking solutions!
A Hitachi Wand with a variable speed controller is absolutely amazing.
amazon.com/Magic-Wand-Massager-Essentials-Controller/dp/B0089175GE
Without the extra controller it can be way too strong for me or my wife.
Personally I recommend this one, which is lightweight, rechargeable (so no worries about batteries), and very budget friendly if it's something you want to try: https://www.amazon.com/Luna-Rechargeable-Personal-Wand-Massager/dp/B088JHY8HD/ref=sr\_1\_1?dchild=1&keywords=Click+to+open+expanded+view+Luna+Rechargeable+Personal+Wand+Massager+-+20+Vibration+Patterns+%26+8+Speed+-+Travel+Bag+Included+-+Perfe...
Besides the obvious extra everything, I have one of these muscle roller sticks in my bag. Really helps if it's your third game of the week and you need to get 'er goin'. The legs feed the wolf.
Not OP, and I struggle with this too. I find that toys massively help. Try and figure out which ones would be best for you. The wand, seriously though, ppl have always talked about the wand and I finally got this one from Amazon- it helped me get over the edge and felt so good as well (also rechargeable and inexpensive): https://www.amazon.com/Luna-Rechargeable-Personal-Wand-Massager/dp/B07YW5DZBQ
As well, I've made my own bingo cards with mini challenges, from length, to trying different positions, techniques, stimulations, etc. You can totally chose your own mini challenges.
Aside from that, maybe a sex therapist can help you figure out what the block might be, as it might be certain thoughts or patterns that are holding you back and a therapist that specializes in the sexual side of things could help with that.
Ha ha. Sure. To be honest, I bought a really cheap one, so I don't know how well of an experience I'll have. :/ Here's the link: https://www.amazon.com/Luna-Rechargeable-Personal-Wand-Massager/dp/B07YW5DZBQ/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=wand+massager&qid=1596248505&sr=8-3
(But I hope to buy a better one in the future from an actual sex shop!)
hey there! I used to have a similar problem of not being able to orgasm in general, even with toys. it took me a bit of finding the right area and pressure I applied to the toy for me to orgasm. I was clueless the first several tries but after really trying out all sorts of areas, I found my “sweet spot”. hope that helps somewhat!
btw, I’ve tried other vibrators but this simple one on Amazon works best for me
Boyfriend just got me this for exactly that application: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B07YVQC4DR/
Rechargeable, so easy to use (no cord in the way). Waterproof, so fun in the tub, and easy to clean. Powerful enough to get the job done. Very happy with it.
I found it on amazon. A few downsides...the head of it is textured so bacteria can grow. Do not submerge in water or run under faucet to clean. I have antibacterial toy cleaner. You won't regret this. If you dont like this one search doxy
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000K8ALI8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_z953FbFCJQXFK
*I have had tons of issues with calf tightness in the past! I highly recommend foam rolling and stick rolling (such as this one from Amazon ) every day until you build up calf strength. If you have extra money to spend, I find calf stretchers like these to be better than other calf stretching exercises.
Ultimately, seeing a physio would be your best bet because there could be all sorts of other issues contributing, but these should help.
The annoying answer is: it varies
Cheaper vibrators will typically have a less expensive motor which may sound quieter but the housing might be a bit noisier. It depends on what type you can find. A simple rechargeable wand like this or a small discreet bullet might work for you. I doubt you'll be waking up the neighbors with an introductory toy
More expensive toys have nice perks like a longer battery life, fancy designs, vibration settings, power, and durability. I'd say the biggest difference though is certain motors produce a "rumble" rather than a " buzz": many girls prefer rumbly because it's quieter, feels better, and doesn't cause a numbing effect after a while. Of course, the more power it has the harder it is to muffle at the highest setting
Not that this should discourage you from shopping for a cheaper one. Budget toys can be surprisingly nice. If anything, try to get one that's made of silicone and is recheargeable. Being waterproof comes in handy too
I ordered one of those but it got lost in the ether ( showed up as shipped but after 2 weeks tracking never updated beyond info sent to shipper so I cancelled ). I ordered this one instead and have really liked the functionality of it. Nice and stable. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0098MAYNY/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
these work well. great for working out knots from leg kicks too.
You mean a Hitachi/Vibratex Magic Wand Original like this one?
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000K8ALI8/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?smid=A3DNQM0U0UJJE&psc=1
If you live anywhere with USA style 110/120v electrical outlets and you want to have sex with women you should get one.
On her back, you inside her, her knees over your elbows, the head of the Magic Wand on low against her clit while you are thrusting slowly, lean over and kiss her and you can control how hard the magic wand is pressing against her clit with your pelvis.
I have yet to meet a woman who didnt enjoy this, and you get to enjoy some very solidly enjoyable secondary vibrations as well.
The Stick for calf/leg massage is killer for on the way out massaging of tired leg muscles after walking all day. I also use a 5 disc roller which I wish I could find a link for (but not something you'd want to use on anything other than carpet) for the bottoms of my feet. To be honest, looking at the products that are out there, buying a 3 pack of tennis balls to roll your feet on is probably far more productive.
Hit up a running store on your day off, tell the sales person you do a half marathon of walking each day, and see what they recommend for the feet or even better, go see a podiatrist. You make money with your feet; if you're earning penalty time, they're earning penalty time and deserve to be treated as such.
I use a basic plastic muscle roller. If I am feeling sore, I use this for a minute or two a few times a day, my legs feel much better the following day.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015RKCWR6/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Foam roller, or the tiger tail
https://www.amazon.com/Original-Tiger-Tail-Massage-Stick/dp/B00ZPMAIO6
Also, watch your electrolytes. When you have an imbalance the calf muscle is one of the first to suffer
Here’s the roller of course you don’t have to get that one. It’s just so you know what they look like :)
Yay! So excited for you, there’s a whole new world before you of pleasure & fun! Here’s one I’ve got for a few of my girlfriends who opened up to me about wanting a toy but not knowing what to get: personal massager
Reading the reviews is always a good time, too! Lol
Rechargeable Personal Massager - Quiet & Waterproof - 20 Patterns & 8 Speeds - Travel Bag Included - Men & Women - Perfect for Tension Relief, Muscle, Back, Soreness, Recovery - Hot Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_D9EY9DRSRKZD9Z4PC57F?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Something like this is inexpensive and works like a charm
The motor is now 5 (watts or horsepower or whatnot) vs 10 on the newer version so yeah thats 50% in my book
Vibrator/wireless massager wand, for me. Cost me like $20. I went from having never had an O, to 'I need to stop already and go be productive' lmao. My biggest regret as a 25 year old is that I didn't buy one sooner. I just submitted to the mental state that I was broken and would never have an O
Amazon literally has everything, or you can go straight to the top of the line and get a Womanizer toy. They’re priced high but they really are exceptional.
Start with a vibrator for her from Amazon though. Personally I have 3 of these from Luna… I accidentally ordered 2 and then I bought a 3rd one bc it was glow in the dark haha thought it’d be fun.
Rechargeable Personal Massager - Quiet & Waterproof - 20 Patterns & 8 Speeds - Travel Bag Included - Men & Women - Perfect for Tension Relief, Muscle, Back, Soreness, Recovery - Hot Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YVQC4DR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_TF5D2CDYKVV8PGDCGJNW?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1