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The time it takes varies from person to person, but I was surprised how easy it was for me.

I drank loads of water. I shot for a gallon a day. I stimulated a few times a day. A lot of info says to stimulate each nipple a few times a day for 10-20 minutes, but I didn't find that to be necessary for me. I also ate foods that are known to help production. I ate a bowl of oatmeal for breakfast most days and also bought a bag of flax seeds to put a couple tablespoons into my protein shakes. You can also purchase nipple suction devices like these: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A8D7CUU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_hWd7BbYKWED57 That's actually how I got my first drop or two before I'd even started trying to induce. And, lastly, you can take fenugreek. You can buy it OTC at most drugstores that have any kind of holistic choices.

With some patience, you should be lactating relatively quickly.

I actually looked into some pumps in the past and the results are mixed (more on the negative).

The consensus seems to be: pumps work for short term gains (2 to 3 hours after pumping), but not as a permanent increase in size.

So if you want to make your penis more 'puffy' before sex, you can use a pump.

I recommend avoiding those overpriced branded pumps like Bathmate, and getting a cheaper one from Amazon to experiment with it (but that's just personal opinion).

If your gf would enjoy a little extra size, you can look for cock sheaths/sleeve (link is to one on Amazon, but I wouldn't recommend buying sex toys from there).

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Many users have legitimate gains. See pumpedhuge user. He’s been pumping for like 15 years though, not that it takes that long. Any Pump w/ a gauge. Pump This is 2x9. You may need to start with 1.75x9 depending on your size.

Best to go low and slow. Low pressure for longer periods of time. With breaks periodically. That’s very difficult in the shower. If you have the money buy both. But if not get the air pump. I actually threw my bathmate away, because it was too inconvenient and mine didn’t have a gauge. I bought this one. Blush Performance VX6 Male... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07NP5ZQ4Y?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share . It’s my second size I start with the 1.75 size then go to the 2. Depends on your size though.

If you want something cheap to wade into the world of pumping, you can use those inexpensive nipple pumps you’ll see guys use on their t dicks.

https://www.amazon.ca/Size-Matters-Clitoris-Suction-Devices/dp/B00A8D7CUU

Start small. Until you get some growth, the larger cylinders will just suck your entire labia into the cylinder with your dick, and that's kinda uncomfortable (speaking from personal experience, lol).

I started with this, which is very affordable, and comes with a good starter-sized cylinder: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01EVSHKV8

Bonus, the cylinder is interchangeable with nicer hand pumps than the squeeze bulb, so you can upgrade your pump later to a nicer one.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EVSHKV8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_6tUxFbYXRKB8E

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They are simple and no frills. She likes each one for different reasons.

I had a guy who had a very similar circumstance. He would bring a vibrator into the bedroom, and would get me off first, and then masterbate to it. If he did penetrate me, I'd have a vibrator on my clit while he missionary styled me. In that way, we both could come equally.

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The other thing that he did was get a penis sleeve. He wore it and it extend his "reach". There's all kinds of penis sleeves out there.

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Of course, it would be a very delicate conversation to get to that place. But bringing in sextoys into you sex play is definitely something worth bringing up.

I have been pregnant twice and each time pregnancy has enlarged the areolas a little bit more, and made them a little bit darker, but the nipples have stretched from pumping. You can try getting something like this: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00A8D7CUU/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 and use them for a little while to help with inverted nipples. Check Amazon also for "nipple correctors" for other suction devices.

I had this one. I loved it because it would auto pump back up for you. completely hands free

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Sorry if the text gets bunched together, Reddit gets wonky at times when I post

Here’s what I do

Get a good pump

Start by stroking your cock to get hard

Watch porn

Get some good lube, water based, silicone, Vaseline, baby oil, etc

Once hard, put pump on

Don’t worry about too much pressure

Get a good pump going, then stop, wait and add more pressure, repeat

Go for 10 mins

Release air, don’t take your cock out, have a towel handy and wipe base of your balls of lube, so they don’t get sucked in to pump too much

Rest 1 min moving pump around

Pump again 10 more mins

Repeat this for 30 mins

Next day rest

Then

Next session

Do 5 mins at a time for an hour

So pump it up for 5 mins as much pressure as you can take with no pain

Milk tube every so often while your in it to get fresh blood flow

Go 5 mins / rest 1 min

Repeat for an hour

Everyone has their own routine

Try mine out, you’ll like it

As of late I like this pump, it’s hands free

Has a timer

Quick release valve

Goes up to a level 4

Easy

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Brother I have no affiliation with this company, and I hate promoting

But

This is the best pump I’ve tried hands down

I’ve tried the trigger Kaplan type Water based ones Big ole box electric ones Bulb pump cheap types

I’m not kidding

Just finished 30 min session on level 4 5 mins each go then 1 min rest, repeat

Get this one

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So after almost 1 year of being sex deprived with my wife, we finally found a penile device (almost like a thick condom) that worked for me being 7 inches girth (diameter). I had tried one an RFF guy posted that did not work for me as it was too small and not flexible enough even if I wanted to fit inside it. After extensive research I found this one on Amazon which comes in 3 sizes..I used the biggest one for the obvious reasons but man oh man. I’m in absolute euphoria rn..to see my body part doing what I always envisioned doing is an indescribable feeling of bliss. My wife loved it so much so she didn’t even want me doing oral on her..which is her absolute favorite. She was so satisfied she didn’t want anything else.

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I would recommend pumping over that, it’ll give you better results. My boyfriend and I use these nipple suction clamp things, and I find they work perfectly for pumping

I got myself this one because it's more affordable than the ones specifically designed for trans guys and I just first wanted to see how it feels. Works pretty well for me. But beware, the packaging is SUPER PINK in case that gives you dysphoria or puts you off.

The important thing here is that you love this man and want to make things work with HIM.

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First off, while it may hurt his feelings, you need to discuss weight loss first and foremost. Specially in the current state of affairs in the world. Not even for sexual or attraction reasons, for his own health and well being.

For penetration you could always incorporate toys and see how it feels when a large object enters you. Additionally your husband could also try wearing a penis sleeve.

https://www.amazon.com/SHEQU-Reusable-Extender-Extension-Ejaculation/dp/B071K82LQ2

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As for climaxing with a partner I find creating a safe relaxing environment helps with climaxing. A nice candle, relaxing music, love and lots of build up before actual oral. Don't focus on orgasming, focus more on relaxing and enjoying the sensations your body is experiencing.

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Most importantly you need to talk with him and tell him what you told us here. If you don't the situation will never progress and that will only lead to more unhappiness. He is lucky to have you and you are lucky to have him.

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If you get really bad ED, you can get one of those penis suction things that "make your penis bigger". They don't, but they help maintain its size. Like this, for example.

I did buy a cheap manual air pump but it was some random thing that I found had decent 4 star on amazon at the time...found it - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00RVJFSOQ/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_search\_asin\_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

What about silicon sleeves? I went ahead and got this because it was cheap... https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07MDWYVFZ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

It's way too big for my girth but it came with a couple silicon sleeves that make the opening smaller. They seem to fit, but what do you guys think? Should I just get a properly sized (according to this chart) LeLuv instead?

Yes consistency! I was doing really well and then fell off unfortunately. Really hoping to come up with a concrete plan. Ordered this pump here to start with

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What’s your pumping and manual routine?

Well, unless you’ve had metoidioplasty, the labia are sorta connected to your dick. Your foreskin/hood kinda drapes down either side and becomes labia as they hang down. I think a cylinder that only sucked in the head of your dick and not the hood as well would be 1) too small for good pumping effects and 2) super uncomfortable and pinchy.

I started with this pump https://www.amazon.com/Size-Matters-Clitoral-Detachable-Cylinder/dp/B01EVSHKV8

That cylinder is now almost too small for me. But the next size up that I have is almost a smidgen too big to be comfortable right away. I usually start with the small one, then move up to the next size after just a few minutes. The size increase from the first pump makes me fit the bigger cylinder better, with less labia pinching.

I got my bigger cylinders with this kit (didn’t buy from this website, but forget where): https://www.toolshedtoys.com/size-matters-size-matters-clitoris-pump-kit.html

The pump that came with that kit is plastic trash and didn’t work, but the cylinders are interchangeable with the bulb pump I bought originally, so I just use that. I wish I had a good pump with a pressure gauge that worked, but oh well.

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Just go on amazon and order it they ship in discrete boxes. I’ve gotten this one before and my wife loved it https://www.amazon.com/Topco-Sales-Tommy-Cyberskin-Extension/dp/B005QEPQCC also reasonably priced.

As a male who has done this in an LTR I can offer my perspective. It all depends on what he is thinking both at the time you guys discuss it and when you actually do the deed.

I'm on the larger side and previous dated a girl that liked size and made that somewhat obvious. So eventually I purchased a sheath (this - you can still feel and orgasm with her) that was huge. She loved it and had some insane orgasms. We would use it off and on. Eventually I sort of got a complex that she wanted that huge size which was a bit of a blow to the ego as she didn't understand that what we did in the bedroom shouldn't translate into regular conversation. I liked hearing her tell me I wasn't enough or that she wanted the other cock in bed, but randomly telling me I had a small dick while getting dressed was annoying. Eventually the relationship ended.

Still, I think there is a way to explore this to make it worthwhile. I would make sure to make it obvious that you still want his dick and perhaps go further with him than you have if he is willing to do it. Don't make this a verbal agreement, but if he does give you the strongest orgasms you've ever had then deep throat him or let him have your ass. That way you are allowing him to have a heightened experience and it shows him that HE gave you the orgasm, just in a different way.

TLDR - approach this carefully, but if you do decide to do it then I recommend this.

So.. I'm sure you two will figure it out. I'd say she's probably not overreacting. If she feels like you've been pushing her into a hotwife/cuck scenario for years, then she may be feeling a lot like you are trying to force your kink onto her.

Maybe next time talk about getting a (warning: NSFW) re-tread instead of having her fuck someone else.